During a relationship, Most guys lie there way into getting what they truly want, which we all know what that "something" really is. Why do they lie? why cant they just tell us the truth? It wont really matter to us in the future if you tell us the truth. We have all gotten hurt by the truth but it will be worse if you just lie. One time, I became really close with this boy that i met last year during school. He was really nice and we clicked really fast and became "biffles", We would talk and see each other every single day and we had so much in common in everything. then we started talking about being together because I made the mistake and told him that I had feelings for him and he felt the same way but he had a girlfriend, but he realized how nice I was and how much he meant to me. He was such a good friend of mine but I didn't want him to break up with his girlfriend, two months later he was like I really want to be with you and I was like ok you want to give it a try? and he was like I would love too. So we did we were just talking for a couple months and one day I asked him you want to hang out? and hes like umm no? and i was like what the heck? he's like i went back with my girlfriend and im like ok?? and then his girlfriend texts me saying like ohh why do you keep on talking to my boyfriend he only likes you as a friend and blah blah blah and I was kind of confused for a moment I was like whatever forget you and i stopped talking to him. Then he comes back to me saying that he's not with his girlfriend anymore that she moved and I was like fine ill give you another chance so then we did and then he just stopped talking to me so I was like okay whatever. Then I texted him and hes like leave me alone (bi-polar much?) your so obsessive with me and annoy me so much your so immature and was saying these nasty things about me so I was like whatever I ignored that because thats what he says all the time when we fight. Now when I look at him, put it this way, I dont even look at his face anymore because he has hurt me in so many different ways its not even funny. I never show my feelings and emotions to anyone but he was the first guy ever that made me cry and I was shocked because I never ever cried over a guy before. So yea now he has a new girlfriend which he probably uses her to just get what he wants. Has this ever happened to you guys before? Dont you just extremely hate when guys do this? Why cant they just fall in love for who you are no what you have?
"People say not to cry because it’s over but
to smile because it happened but how can you
do that when just thinking of the good times
makes you wanna cry because
you realize what you’re missing?"
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ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, that's terrible! I'm so sorry for you! That guy was a total jerk, and you totally don't need to be hanging out with guys like him.
ReplyDeleteGuys don't always lie, but when they do, it's usually because, like you said, it's to get what they want. The male mind is filled with mainly two subjects: games and sex--each equally as interesting. They will do whatever it takes to get into somebody's pants.
However, that is not the case for all men. There are men (such as myself) that would lie because they're afraid as to how the person would react. They portray themselves in a way that would appeal to the person they're interested in, and if lying is the way to get there, then so be it!
I do hate it when people do that, yes. It's so annoying to find out that they've been lying from the start. If they lie about one thing, who's to know what else they could be lying about?
Also, Mrs. Stoklosa, it's funny you say that. This is the internet--everything is almost always misspelled or grammatically incorrect. ;)
Wow I'm sorry that happened. I personally hate to lie. I wouldn’t do it. But not all guys lie, some guys actually are dedicated to a relationship and want it to last but lying shouldn’t be an option. But if there are lies from the start and u catch them no guy is worth your time. Leave him and move on..
ReplyDeleteEveryone lies, I don't really like it when people say somethings about other people because that's how stereotypes are and it's not right. People are really in essence equal and all do the same thing no matter who they are. Judge a person as an indivdual on't put them in a category. Besides that not everyoen is the same, I'm a guy and i hardly ever lie, I always liek to say the truth. Lying is hard work, and the truth is just easier. I would just say that next time take more time out to really get to know the person and see who they really are and figure out what they really want. You feel me?
ReplyDeleteNot every guy lies but i'm sorry for what happened to you. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy for you. I guarantee there is that one guy for you but this guy wasn't it. Before u do anything you should get to know the boy a lot more and see how he is and see what he is like. Usually personality is what girls like best of a guy and who doesn't lie.
ReplyDeleteHow immature that that's all you really care about, some guy that lied to you. Sure, he hurt you but it happens. Girls lie too, they go out and cheat on guys multiple times, and I mean really, you're going to give him another chance JUST because he broke up with his girlfriend 'cause she moved. That's the only reason he went back to you, because he knew you would always be there on the side.
ReplyDeleteThats really bad, but you should find out if it was really him texting you. Its either him being pushed around by his over-controling girlfriend or shes the one who stole his phone to text you. (I know its happened to me before)
ReplyDeleteYou should be careful with friendships that turn into something more serious. For some reason they never work out the way you planned. And in the end your not only heart broken, but you might have lost a really good friend too.
Wow. Its really low of this guy to treat you this way. Guys usually lie to get their way through and get what they want. Most guys at this age don't really care about being in a serious relationship. They are too young and dumb witted to be with one girl at a time. They just want to have fun at this age and don't seem to care as much. Be careful with the guy your with, or choose, because most guys will just scam you into getting what they want.
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